How Do I Last Longer In Bed I Am A 35yo Male With Plenty Of Drive Just No Staying Power

1. A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want. 2. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. 3. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. 4. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all. 5. Married men live longer than single men - but married men are a lot more willing to die. 6. Any married man should forget his mistakes - there's no use in two people remembering the same thing. 7. Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. Women somehow deteriorate during the night. 8. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change and she does. 9. A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. 10. There are two times when a man doesn't understand a woman - before marriage and after marriage.

By going away, do you mean he ejaculates after 3 mins or just the errection disappears. If it's ejaculating then I'd go with what the first poster said in that you need to increase the time taken to stimulate you and maybe even make sure you have an orgasm through other means like fingers, oral or even toys. That way you can use the ejaculation bit as the final act if you like. If it's that his errection disappears then it could be all sorts of factors from psychological such as he simply doesn't really get stimulated from sex* to blood pressure or possibly some kind of errectile dysfunction - can be very temporary. Things like drugs really don't help, eg: Prozac. * It's a myth that all guys are able to get stimulated simply by seeing a woman naked. Some run on physical and some on psychological basis'. And no it doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. For errectile related then a visit to the doctor might be a good idea just to make sure there's nothing up like hormone levels or blood pressure. Also can you get it back up by giving it a little oral TLC after a few minutes? Stress and things like that can badly affect it, plus even worrying about it going away will cause stress. Orgasming kindof depends on the type of sex. Standard sex in a lot of women doesn't exactly do it, and very unlikely to have that effect in 3 minutes. Most need direct clitteral stimulation to achieve that so oral, foreplay and toys can help for sure. The latter doesn't have to be full vibrators, just c*ck rings or little vibes might be fun. A lot of it might well be psychological as women put a lot more psychology into sex than most guys, so if you're starting off thinking this is going to be bad then you won't enjoy it. Try varying the sex even over time of day and location. For example you might see him in the kitchen and just want to play around there, even if it doesn't lead to full sex. Just bring the passion back in and that might well help. Final thing - was there anything specific which happened 5 months ago like lots of stress, job, etc? Lots of things can affect passion levels and if you can identify that then it might well help. My advice is make sure you kiss and cuddle a lot rather than always going for sex. And remember, guys have limits so doing that every night can be very exhausting whatever he tells his mates down the pub...! :)

So what the hell is the problem. They married for better or worse. Bob's getting the better and Nancy's getting the worse

Last time I got drunk on Jose Cuervo some girl gave me a bj for 45 minutes and then we screwed for like another 30 minutes before i finally blew...but I was totally plastered so I don't know if that had anything to do with it.

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Regardless of what you hear -- lasting more than a certain length of time is NOT pleasurable for your partner (the person you are having sex with). 2 to 5 hours is FAR too long. I've known one guy (a white friend) who could do that, and he never could keep a g/f because frankly - too long is truly far worse than too short -- and girls don't always realize that until they have too long. 20 to 30 minutes is about the maximum that anyone really "enjoys" sex, regardless of what they say. You however are stuck with how you were made, and I'm not sure what to tell you. Kind thoughts, Hermes

You do not suck - At least you care enough to ask :) I have known men that control it in their mind (do not even want to know WHAT they are thinking)... There are also creams and I have heard that condoms help control the sensitivity. Good luck

We gave our puppy a towel in her cage instead of a bed when she was in her heavy-teething stages. We had a bunch of old towels laying around, so it wasn't a problem for us if she frayed them a bit. And then there's no problem of cleaning up stuffing or having her eat it! Good luck!