What Should I Do To Last Longer In Bedmale

My boyfriend and I were fooling around for a while yesterday, and I had already made him come once. When it came down to sex he didn't last long at all...whereas normally he can go for an hour or more. He apologised and said that this was the first time ever, and felt bad as he doesn't like leaving me "unsatisfied". I'm not bothered, he's always been amazing in bed and this was the first time in the 10 months that we've been together. However, I was a bit stroppy with him (as before that he'd spent time teasing etc and I was a little frustrated!) but I spoke to him today so he knew I wasn't mad... However, he was really off with me, and when I asked what was the matter he said he didn't know. If this has happened to you before how do you feel? I don't know if the reason he's in a bad mood is because of last night, or because of something else?

Try more foreplay with your lady if she's not satisfied. A good 10 minutes of humping is nice, but longer is better. If you need to take a second to calm yourself, do switch positions, or stop and go down on her for a few minutes. You guys can work this out. Oh, and practice restraint when you're having alone time too.

This could be due to a lot of things. First of all make sure he masturbates a few hours before he comes to bed with you. It may not seem like it would help but it actually will dull some sensations for him and keep him going longer. The anticipation for sex can sometimes be the thing that gets a guy going so much that he gets his rocks off way before you. Also, he can always go downstairs and get you worked up to give you yours before he gets his. This works for a lot of couples. Sometimes when a woman knows they're about to climax the guy can slip up and finish her off and within a few minutes finish himself off as well. Don't think that this sort of thing is uncommon because it isn't. It happens all the time and it has nothing to do with him being inadequate. You might also try to make your intimate times more frequent. If he's only getting with you once or twice a week than the anticipation might be blowing his pipes before he gets too far along. Good luck and I hope this helps!

Keep giving him space. You know what he likes, plan something special for his birthday. All you can do is try, he will come around.

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Oh, dear. It seems that you have realised that both of you have made a dreadful mistake, and there is really only one way out. I'm so sorry, but I don't think I need to spell it out for you. Good luck!

Some men just can't last long, and some can. Your man might be one of the few that can't last long. This doesn't mean he can't please you in other ways... Sorry to say this, but he said "Vagina's are ugly". He actually said that??? He closes his eyes when he goes down on you, and that they are gross.... Okay this may be harsh to hear, but either your man is in the closet or he's completely clueless. I am not sure how old you guys are, but this just doesn't sound like a "GUYS' GUY". Most men like to please their women and give them oral sex, (yes not all the time), but they enjoy watching their women squirm for more. A man also NEVER and I mean NEVER says a vagina is "ugly" and or doesn't like to touch it. Sex is a big part of a relationship; and if he is not satisfying your needs, don't resort to cheating either talk it out and if things can't change then you have a choice to make here. I understand the rest of your relationship is good, but this will definitely cause problems in the long run, and you don't want to spend your time wasted on a man that can't satisfy you. It sounds to me like you already tried helping him out and giving him hints as to what you like, and it seems to me like he isn't getting it. Either live with the fact that he can't satisfy you every time or move on and find a man that will. A man who is attentive in bed is a man you want around for a long time, a man who doesn't care and calls your vagina "ugly", feels it's gross and doesn't like touching it, is a man you have to truly question?!! Good luck xo, kristin nicole If you have any questions please contact me on my website http://soapnights.com I am going to post your question on my site.

So basically, it's been 2 hours since you text him and you want a bunch of strangers to tell you why he hasn't returned your text? This question has genuinely made my blood boil.

well it could be that his too horny... there sum guys that when there too horny and they com fast and not alot of guys that could go for second round.. and no i never had it i always last the time i want ive got to control it :-) but u could try is go for a wail then stop and then go again