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My boyfriend is all over the place when it comes to the amount of time he lasts in bed. Sometimes he can go for 45mins, half hour, 15, even only 4 or 5 minutes. I don't like this because I want to have 45 minutes ALL THE TIME haha..we've been wondering why this is...we're not doing anything differently ... and the only reason we've come up with for this crazy range is that we've heard that the more often stimulation occurs for a man meaning (he jacks off everyday or has sex everyday) ..the longer it'll take him to come. But if he doesn't stimulate himself that often, he'll come really fast. Is this true?

You and your husband may want to wear bathrobes and cover up a little bit more. I'm not sure he is handling very well what he sees. You could give him some quality time by reading to him before bed or in the morning.

You can do it the long way and spend your time pleasuring her. Going down on her, kissing her, and slow intercourse. Or you can go the easy way...masturbate 1 hour to 30 mins before you have sex with her. And also, take your time...don't "pump away."

Anything too long is, well, too long... is it so long because it takes him so long to climax? If so, maybe there is a medical condition? Look into what could cause that and suggest an Md., if necessary. Is it too long because after he ejaculates he wants to go again? Find out why? Perhaps concentrate more on foreplay and other ways to please each other that do not involve straight on intercourse the entire time - by making the whole experience more sensual and erotic, it may take less time, cause less sensitivity and friction (one more than one level!) and will turn your experience into a more enjoyable one... Good luck!

1) Learn to stop! Don't go at it like a bull in a china shop. If you feel yourself getting close to the point of no return STOP. Withdraw your penis and change what you were doing. 2) Breathing. Control your breathing through your nose with deep breaths. This will slow your whole excitement and put you back in control. 3) Wear a condom. A cheap and easy (and not at all suspicious) way to reduce sensitivity to your penis (particilarly the tip (glans)), thus helping you to last longer. 4) Stimulate your partner. Forget about yourself. Almost as much pleasure (without the ejaculation) can be gained for both partners, if you concentrate on pleasuring your lover. Step back from your own penetration and work your magic with your hand or mouth to bring your partner to climax, or almost climax. You can then carry on after your partner is satisfied or join in just as they are about to climax. 5) Circular motions. Stop overstimulating your penis head and alter your penetration technique to a circular motion so that all your penis (hence less of the head) gets stimulated. 6) Location location location. Or rather position. Your partner on top reduces your movement and excitement (unlike you being on top doing all the work). This can greatly help the control you have and stimulation you receive. 7) Diversionary tactics! At least for your mind anyway. No, don't think of your mother naked. Instead hold the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. This is a simple trick, effective and unknown to your lover. 8) Masturbate first. If you have been getting excited all night with your partner then the build up of anticipation is too much and will almost certainly result in premature ejaculation. Offset this by popping to the toilet and masturbating 10 minutes before you will be making your move for real. 9) Stay in control. This may encompass some other aspects of these 10 tips but if you have the mindset of being in control, instead of getting over excited, then you can withdraw at any point, cchange position, give oral stimulation and generally decide the outcome of the experience. 10) The 'behind the balls' muscle. Forget it's scientific name. Hold this muscle or press it with your hand when you feel the urge to come. A little practise with this technique will be an immediate relief. With these in place you will be well on your way to making a more sensual lover, a more relaxed lover, and one who is able to last longer in bed and have sex for longer until you decide your partner is sexually satisfied (well, almost!) and you are ready to join in that pleasurable sensation too. Good luck with your new found control...

i wouldnt say jerk off 500 times, but you will last longer if you masturbate before you have sex. not like, RIGHT before, but before you go out, or before the girl comes over. it's not a big deal if you dont last long your first time, especially if the girl is also losing her virginity. if she is, shes gonna want it to be quick so it will hurt less. but if shes not a virgin, then you should tell her that you're a virgin and she should understand. good luck! just remember if this is your girlfriend that sex is going to change a relationship. it can go one of 2 ways. you can either A) continue to have sex with the same person or B) you want to have sex with other people. when i lost my virginity, my boyfriend chose option B but fortunately, our breakup led me to my new boyfriend, Sean. We've been together for 5 years :)

Some guys can control it. My boyfriend can last 2 hrs + if I want him to, or he can go quick. I think it depends on how often you have sex.

Tell him to go to a men's clinic or a sex therapist because he doesn't please you in the bedroom since he's a minute man. If you're considering breaking up with him, it probably means that you don't love him enough to settle for mediocre sex for the rest of your life just to be with him. Nothing wrong with that so don't feel guilty. If great sex is important to you, tell him that he needs to at least try to make it better because it's REALLY important to you. If he doesn't then break up with him. You're not married yet. Break it off before you waste anymore of your time. You will always be tempted to cheat on him if he sucks in bed. It's better to break it off than to commit adultery in marriage which will cost you a lot at divorce time. **** HOWEVER think about what you might be giving up. You may find a guy who can last all night and who is incredible in bed but he may be bad with money and cheat on you and beat you and not be good husband material at all. It's a gamble. You may never find another guy with all the good qualities that this one has.